All I can say about this weekend is that I need to start more book clubs. Saturday afternoon marked the first meet and greet for my book club. Out of the 10 people who showed interest, 4-6 RSVPd, and 1 actually showed up. Her name is Mary and she is fabulous, pretty, normal, late twenties, and very nice. She and I talked book club and made our choices for the next meeting. Expecting a lot of no-shows I also invited an acquaintance from the hub. I had met him the first hub night and then last weekend he gave me a ride home from the slavery movie and to and fro church...I had mentioned then that I was starting a book club. I decided to invite him to Saturday's meet and greet and he wanted to go, but he needed to come late. Of course that was no problem and he met me a little after 4:00. He grabbed us coffee and then we headed out to Border's about a 1-2 mile walk, to buy the book. From there we headed to Chili Mac's (my fav dive pizza place) and we enjoyed the wondrous Chili Mac pizza. What a fun little impromptu date night we had; but it didn't end there.
After dinner we rented a couple of Red Box's and he came over where we watched three movies (he likes Clue too!) and enjoyed fun, easy conversation and edamame. And, it was very unexpected and totally hot to find out that this nice Christian boy has got game! He easily and confidently seduced me into a passionate and attentive (and slightly teenage) make-out session. It was prefect. He declined to stay over (he lives with a pastor) and left at 4:00am.
At 9:00 Sunday I picked him up for church which worked out quite well because I needed a man's help in getting my oil filled up and my car washed. We sat together on our own at church and then met up with the Hub group after for lunch. I am getting to recognize people and their names better and better each day. After lunch we headed over to BP to take care of car stuff. Obviously, the next morning can always be a little awkward, which is why I was relieved that he suggested he should come over to watch the Chicago based Candyman. So he he came over and we watched Candyman and then Moulin Rouge, and then I experienced the most sensual pleasure of my life. This seemingly innocent church boy knows exactly how and where to touch a woman--PG style, which makes it all the sexier. He left at 10:00.
So who is this book lover? He is different from every guy from my past, and in many ways he is exactly what I have been looking for-- he is in finance (a CPA) at a big firm, he is really laid back, he is well liked, he is funny and has a great sense of humor, he loves his family, he is a Christian, he likes Seinfeld and hates onions, he hates watching Basketball on TV, and he is a good person. BUT he is also shorter and younger than me. 5'9" and 24. And he wears belt buckles (like big ones) and bought his last suit at the Men's Wearhouse. To top it off, I can't really read him, and I have no idea if he is into me. You would get the impression that he likes me, I mean he did spend almost 24 hours with me this wknd, but then he didn't suggest or ask or say he would like to see me again. He is in IN all week for work and and our goodbye was a "see ya".
Honestly, I feel like I am cursed, even when I try, I always end up violating every self help date book and I let things go a little too far on the first date. I give into the chemistry and live in the moment--it would be rude not to. (I wonder if PG interaction is a loop hole?) and (I wonder if the fact that it not being a date is a loop hole). Are good Christian boys also capable of the use em and leave em? I could analyze this forever, instead, the new me will accept that whatever is meant to be shall be.
What a great weekend :)
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