Not so single weekend

How do you date like a man? This single life is getting a little complicated--in a good way :).

So this weekend I have three, yes 3, dates lined up. I have set up 3 dates to fill up my 3 night weekend, Fri, Sat, and Sun. Friday I will be seeing Jordan, Sat night is reserved for Vegas, and Sunday night is promised to Danny (originally I was to see Danny Friday night but I had to bump him due to 50th floor). Wow, did I just officially turn into a guy?

I am not sure I can keep up this "guy" lifestyle, but it is certainly worth a try, I mean after all, what is the harm? Seems like a dangerous question as I am surely in dangerous territory.

The thing about it is that I like all three guys at least as much as the other. Not true, as I am partial to Danny due to our open relationship and mutual understanding. Spending time with him is easy. He and I are actually in a relationship, more like a loverationship. We are "lovers" (draw your own conclusions but this does not necessarily mean only the "sex"), and we are friends. We are in a loverationship as defined as a relationship in a proper sense, but with the freedom to see other people. For example, we talk almost daily as he has a genuine concern for my well-being (like I have to call him when I am safe after a plane ride or a 7 hour car ride, or he will call me if there is severe weather, etc.). He would adhere to proper family functions if I so permitted and he is not going to leave me or break things off ever. I will need to be the one to stop seeing him once I find the actual relationship that I am looking for. Once this happens he will be sad but as long as I treat the "end" with respect and dignity then he will always regard me favorably. Wow, this is really new to me. Both comfort and security possible with one guy? Crazy. Of course this is not the long term w/ a future relationship I am looking for, but he is adding value to my life and to my self-esteem.

Next I guess I am in favor of Jordan. Not only do I like the view of Chicago from his balcony, but he has the culture, joy of travel, appreciation for fashion, and accent that I so love. It is darling. Unfortunately, this Jordan version of my Venezuelan is all about the party and not about the relationship.

Last I am in favor of Vegas. I can't really tell if I do or do not like him. I have had to do all of the recent texting and suggesting to make a date. He is a good guy but very very paper with good enough written all over him. I do like him despite that, and I am looking forward to seeing him.

So there you go. A single girl does Chicago like a man.